All About Love: Make It Last - Shidoo Tarkaa

  • Post By Shidoo Tarkaa 12:03pm on Monday 25th March 2019

How to make it last... "Make it last forever and ever"... Okay that is me singing a song by Joe and Mariah Carey - Make it last forever. Shidoo takes us through another series of "All About Love."


Welcome y'all. This is "All About Love".


Okay, Today you know the year is just starting,we come up with a lot of plans for the year but do our plans include the fact that we ought to build stronger relationships with our loved ones or what. Well I am just thinking. I actually enjoyed the "10 years challenge" which was a rave recently because it got me thinking, what if we can celebrate 10 years of our relationships, Wow! I know some people even have it going for more than ten years, even twenty or thirty years. So what's the secret? Today we will try to bring out tips that will help us go that far... And Here are some of them:

-Continually take your partner's breath away. Do something amazingly thoughtful and out of the ordinary and try to incorporate an element of surprise to it: a loving note tucked into a pocket. A special dinner on an otherwise ordinary night. A playlist made up with his or her favourite songs. These thoughtful acts will embed you in his memory.

-Do something special on a regular basis. Call every day just to touch base for a few minutes. Make a favourite meal once a week. Once they begin to expect these things, you will always be close to their awareness.

- Engage in lots of eyes gazing. New couples seem to do this naturally, but don’t drop this strong bonding behaviour just because the relationship has progressed. This is one way to keep the romance alive and is especially powerful when making love.

-Learn what pleases your partner sexually. Make it clear that his or her pleasure is your pleasure, and you want to discover everything about what turns them on. They’ll be happy to have you experiment with them.


-Teach your partner what you like. Likewise, making you happy will make them feel good. And research shows that the sexual pleasure of one partner increases the pleasure of the other partner.


- Boost lasting love with sexual novelty. When things get humdrum and routine, there is not going to be as much of a hormonal/neurotransmitter reaction, and arousal is lessened. While you don't have to break out the whips and chains, a little novelty can increase anticipation, which means that more hormones are secreted. The result? Hotter, more thrilling sex for both of you.

-Do something edgy. If you get your partner’s heart rate up, they may associate the feeling of excitement with you and may develop more powerful feelings for you. Going on a roller-coaster ride, taking a balloon trip, shooting the rapids—anything with a touch of danger to it—can make them fall more deeply in love with you.


- Do something great for someone your partner loves. If you show kindness and love for someone they love, you will earn major points. When you enter a relationship, you also enter a relationship with all his family and friends. Show them that the people who are important to them are important to you.

-Summarize and immortalize loving moments. Don’t be afraid to give voice to your love. Tell him or her how you feel. Write a loving note or poem. Lovers have been doing this from the beginning of time because it works.



-Boost the chemicals of love. There are many brain chemicals that go into the feeling of love and attachment. Oxytocin is known as the bonding, trust, and cuddle hormone. Oxytocin is enhanced by watching romantic movies together, holding hands, cuddling, and long, loving eye contact. Women usually have more oxytocin than men, but according to one study, a man’s level of oxytocin goes up 500 percent after making love. Being too busy to make love pushes couples apart.



So try out these tips and see how far you can take your relationship...

I'll see next time,Bye.


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